Yesterday, my 92-year-old dad and I sat outside together at our favorite yogurt restaurant, enjoyed the view across the lake nearby, and chatted about…well, anything and everything that came to mind. In Africa they say “When an old man dies, a library is burned.” I want to check out every volume in my dad’s heart before that time comes. We both know that, barring the Lord’s return, it will not be too many more years before that door is closed here on earth. So we kicked back, watched the clouds scud across the sky, enjoyed the shade provided by the building, and the Oklahoma wind provided by the Lord.
My dad makes no claims to perfection, nor does his son. We both have our strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes. Long ago we ceased demanding that either endorse the preferences of the other (Although he hasn’t given up on a few things he still believes I ought to change!). My dad has mellowed over the years. Human failure and Divine forgiveness has made him quick to admit his faults, and eager to confess his struggles and weaknesses. In those ways, and many others, I want to be like my dad. I especially appreciate the transparent manner in which he allows me to walk, unhindered, through the inner recesses of his heart.
Sunday, God willing, I’m taking dad with me to Seminole, Oklahoma, where, not far from a church pastored his father in the early days of the last century, I will preach a Father’s Day message. In that message, I’ll speak about the ten characteristics I believe every father should possess. The text, Luke 15:11-32, is that of the Lord’s parable of the prodigal son. I’ll leave it with you to read the story, but you’ll find a listing of these characteristics below. Of course, the father in the story is a picture of our Heavenly Father, and a model for each of us as earthly fathers.
1. He doesn’t let past disappointments alter present determination (11-13).
2. He builds into the family a sense of noble principle (14-19).
3. He believes and teaches that all problems can be solved by following God’s plan (15-20).
4. He is just, but easily entreated for forgiveness (20-24).
5. He doesn’t dwell on past mistakes (22-24).
6. He expresses concern for family unity (25-28).
7. He rewards proper behavior (29-31).
8. He deals with each child according to his or her unique personality (31-32).
9. He does not miss an opportunity to learn, or teach a principle (28-32).
10. He is present…at home (20).
Happy Father’s Day, Dad!
I love you, and thanks God for the privilege of being called your son.
Rejoice evermore!
Tom Elliff
2 Tim 1:12
